FREE YOUR MIND:
Ask for what you want
by John R. Barker

Often, our greatest barrier to getting what we want is our unwillingness to simply ask.  Our mind creates excuses, stories and “considerations” which provide numerous reasons not to risk putting ourselves forward.

In essence, we make the decision for the other person without ever giving them the chance to say yes or no for themselves.  We already “think we know” what they will say without letting them say it.  Not asking is a control mechanism of the mind.  While it is meant to prevent us from being hurt, the only thing it really prevents is our empowered ability to get what we want.

Hockey great, Wayne Gretzky once said, “I miss 100% of the shots I don’t take.”  When you see something you want, ask for it!   Take your shot.  Ignore the mind-chatter that creates excuses for why not.   You might be surprised how often you get what you want! 

John says - As a personal coach I support my clients like their life depends on it – I believe it does.  What I offer can make the difference between an ordinary and an extraordinary life by helping my clients see new ways of thinking, creating new opportunities.

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